Small talk in the France
They don't small talk at meetings which is so typical of the Americans or the British. Neither is humour used to break the ice or to warm up the audience. So do not sprinkle your presentation with jokes, because business is a serious matter.
Mind your manners:
- The French are proud of their language and prefer to speak it with guests from abroad. Even if your French is bad, it helps to break down barriers.
- The French are formal and may be seen as cold and aloof. Use Monsieur and Madame regularly. Stay warm and friendly without getting over-familiar.
- Avoid conversation openers that are popular in England, Germany and the States: "What do you do for a living?", "Are you married?", "Do you have children?". Keep to the Tour de France, their excellent food or discuss art and culture, if you are a master of the subject. If not, you can score points by criticising the English - a favourite French pastime.
- Taboo subjects: never mention the War and don't bring up the subject of the German Occupation. The French do not accept that they were defeated.
- The French tend to butt in on each other's conversations. This is not rudeness, but proof that they are listening and interested in taking part.
- French people believe that there is more to life than the job. Eating is part of the secret of good life. They honour guests at the best restaurants with three to six-course meals. An American who talks business to a Frenchman over dinner will find his French colleague wants to enjoy his meal. They do not admire workaholics, so don't talk business over lunch.
Reference: Small Talk for big business, Rene Bosewitz
